Understanding Grief: The Unique Journey of Loss
Grief is one of the most profound human experiences, yet no two people grieve the same way. When we experience loss—whether it’s the death of a loved one, the end of a relationship, or even the loss of a dream—it can stir up deep sadness and emotional pain. While some may openly express their sorrow, others may retreat inward, finding it difficult to put their feelings into words. Grieving is not a one-size-fits-all process, and understanding this can help us navigate our own journey as well as offer compassion to others.
The pain of loss often feels overwhelming, like a wave crashing over us when we least expect it. For some, this sadness may manifest as tears and emotional expression. For others, grief can look like numbness, irritability, or a sense of disconnection. There is no “right” way to grieve, and this lack of uniformity can sometimes make the process even harder. When sadness lingers, and the weight of the loss feels unshakable, it’s easy to wonder if we’re grieving "the wrong way." But in truth, grief is deeply personal, shaped by our relationships, coping mechanisms, and life experiences.
One of the challenges of grief is how isolating it can feel. The world around us often seems to move on while we’re left carrying the sadness and pain of our loss. Well-meaning advice like “time heals all wounds” can unintentionally dismiss the depth of our feelings. Grief doesn’t follow a set timeline, and healing often feels more like a winding road than a straight path. Some days may bring moments of peace, while others bring fresh waves of sorrow—and that’s entirely normal.
While the journey through grief is difficult, it’s also a testament to the love and connection we’ve experienced. Seeking support—whether through friends, family, or a therapist—can help lighten the load. Grief may never fully go away, but over time, the sharp edges of sadness can soften, allowing us to hold our loss with gentleness and find meaning in the memories and lessons it leaves behind.
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